Asking for advice is something that can help us and make us see things from a different perspective. Love, family problems, school and even money are some of our dilemmas. A friend of mine has been on a relation for a very long time, he says he loves his girlfriend but now he feels attracted to a new girl in his class. What do you think he should do? What should I tell him? Try your best advice.
30 de marzo de 2014, 8:12
Well, my advice to "your friend" would be, one thing is that you like you one classmate, and other the love with your girlfriend . the love is different to the atraccion. often people can find beautiful other people, but that does not mean to you end the relationship. my advice is to think things through and let time pass. consider; who is the right person? and not to hurt anyone.
Name: Pía Alfaro
30 de marzo de 2014, 8:31
In my opinion, first, he need to think carefully, ¿who are the girl that makes him happy?, the perfect girl for him, because one thing is the attraction and other is love.
Then he must forget the other girl, he need avoid it and not think in she.
That's all. He must to clarify his feelings.
Sebastián Álvarez
N°: 4
30 de marzo de 2014, 9:13
Well I think he need time to think about it. if you really love your girlfriend you should not feel attraction for your classmate. have to think things through and assess your girlfriend. not confuse things do not let go your girlfriend for a simple attraction.
Name: Barbara Jopia
n°list: 21
30 de marzo de 2014, 9:42
I think be girlfriend is better, because do not know the new gilr, you dont like it, is just an atraction, recalls that everything you see aint always what a seems. no mistakes, and stay whit you girlfriend.
Fernando Navarro. (27)
30 de marzo de 2014, 10:26
Well, my opinion is that you should tell your friend to think good things, because it is one thing and another being in love is the attraction, perhaps the new girl in class attracts physically and not by their feelings. You have to realize that it is possible that your attraction to be during a small time, and if your girlfriend makes him happy and you are comfortable with it, you should not leave it. Whatever the decision you make, you should think well, because then you won't want to regret your decision.
Name: Tamara Morales.
30 de marzo de 2014, 10:29
I would tell him that he should think that if it ends with his girlfriend, he may regret having done that is successfully realized it was just love at first sight, and that his girlfriend might not want to go back to him because the changed by the first person that crossed the road.
Guillermo Castro (11)
30 de marzo de 2014, 11:12
I think that, if your friend loves his girlfriend as he says, should not doubt if one feels attracted to the other girl, in daily life one can find attractive to people, if i find someone handsome, i don't fall in love for him, my advice is to think and see which is the person who makes you feel happy.
Name: Cristóbal Jéldrez (20)
30 de marzo de 2014, 11:34
In my opinion, your friend need to talk with her girlfriend, and try to forget the new girl, and he try to clarify her sentiments, and not hurt nobody
Jorge
41
30 de marzo de 2014, 11:58
In my opinion, you should tell your friend that ends with his girlfriend, to take time to clarify what he really feels. When your friend finds sure what to do, he Choose. Must consider the dilemma that says if you look at two girls at once, stay with the second because if you really loved the first you had you had not noticed the second
Name: Cinthia Rojas
30 de marzo de 2014, 12:29
30 de marzo de 2014, 12:39
i think he should take some time to think about your feelings. He need talk with her girlfriend and he is not confuse about her classmate is just something fleeting. Love is not only attraction, but true feelings for each other.
Name: Javiera Cáceres
nº: 9
30 de marzo de 2014, 13:04
I think if you really love your girlfriend would not have because they feel attraction for someone else, the feeling should clarify its so not to hurt anyone, he can only feel the physical attraction for her and not for the feelings that is what really matters.
name: valesca angel
30 de marzo de 2014, 13:05
in my opinion, what I can say is that you should tell your friend to think things through in this process with his girlfriend often spend the same but you should not let your girlfriend have to think things through without hurt anyone because you never know what you have until you lose it
Choose your girlfriend do not be stupid
the other is a simple attraction thanks
Name: Pablo Galleguilos
30 de marzo de 2014, 13:25
Teacher, tell your friend that is a time with his girlfriend, because if this confused feelings, it better be some time apart to think, because if the cheats and they are together, there would ruin it completely relationship. However, it is best that you can select who loves more, and either a chick, do not you ruin your life.
30 de marzo de 2014, 13:27
My advice would follow with his girlfriend, because if he really loves she as he says should not attract her anyone else. Besides her love for the girlfriend is very different from a attraction to her companion as only likes physically and not really known. Do not think it's good waste his love to his girlfriend for something physical.
Name:Constanza Bahamondes
30 de marzo de 2014, 13:30
Your friend should change his girlfriend for the new girl as if it is ok in love with his girlfriend was not in love with each other. What better than i can tell you is that of a time with his girlfriend and falling in love each other and conquer it since his girlfriend did not really love him
Name: Bastian Egaña
30 de marzo de 2014, 13:44
my advice would converse and tell him your feelings because if friends are supposed to have enough to talk about their feelings for each other confidence.
also would come out of doubt whether the want it in the same sense or not.
Romina Berrios
3rd
30 de marzo de 2014, 13:45
I think you should tell your friend to clarify their feelings as they could be just a passing attraction and could hurt both girls.
if your friend is feeling the attraction for the girl should stay away from her and that he has a girlfriend and stupid would leave by the time an attraction.
Name: Gabriela Luna
30 de marzo de 2014, 13:48
look friend of my teacher first have to think and realize who want more and see the weight of the relationship with your current partner, you can not throw it all away by a girl who resent know first meet her well and then takes a desicion.
name: yoel sepulveda (34)
30 de marzo de 2014, 14:06
Dear friend, I think you should first talk honestly with your girlfriend, tell her you're getting to know another person and which seem to have much chemistry as love. That is, if the attraction for that other girl is greater should take a your time and your girlfriend. Because if you think about it, if you talk to her you'll hurt yourself and not know if the other girl really wants something more than a friendship with you.
Take care and good luck :)
Catalina Rios (31)
30 de marzo de 2014, 14:12
What I can advise is that you may know the other girl and if you realize that you love so much as talk to your girlfriend and be honest with her. But if you want to end your relationship must also tell you about the other girl, tell her more to know these so you do not have problems.
Camila Ramirez 30
30 de marzo de 2014, 14:23
my advice is to think things would be better, you have to keep in mind that everything that you spent with your girlfriend lose, makes you think more convenient for all, stay with the woman that makes you feel happy, good luck
Name: Gabriel Gahona
List number: 16
30 de marzo de 2014, 15:07
For me, should stay away from the girl who gets what, see what you really want in a woman and think if it would be truly happy without his girlfriend, because he might only be a fad, also learn to appreciate what you have at your side and try to take your situation to lesson and not to repeat the same mistakes.
Luis Silva
N°:35
30 de marzo de 2014, 15:16
In my opinion the first thing you should do think the situation would not be confused by the attraction to the new girl and love for his girlfriend, also would advise you'd better stay away from the new girl to keep her girlfriend, and in the case that the new girl attracted much should talk to your girlfriend and discuss the situation to see what she feels, her point of view and solution to what happens.
Name: Catalina Menjibar
30 de marzo de 2014, 15:42
I advice that finished yours relationship and take a time (single), and think if miss his girlfriend or no. He must be honest and if feel something for his new classmate could be only attraction, not true.
Always we find someone cute but is different true love that love ar first sight. <3
Yaresli Torres 37
31 de marzo de 2014, 14:00
I advice you could give that friend is you have to think things through before doing them very well, because while someone might many people will only accept one love. The question was conocerce yourself, be mature and deal with things, and so to make the right decision.
Name:Javiera Yañez
31 de marzo de 2014, 14:11
It comes just getting to know the girl, have to wait to see what happens with their feelings, that do not be swayed by feelings,because they do not really know if it worked.
Paula (18)
31 de marzo de 2014, 14:46
In my opinion that should be taken with great caution and think because love is different from a atraccion.El advice I would give you is to think well what to do and not take care in what you decide fence
Felipe Tabilo
N°: 36
31 de marzo de 2014, 18:12
The advice I would give you is that the time to meet the new companion before everything was given, because can this only be a momentary attraction that the girl is not what you expect and then regret having missed his girlfriend .
name:camila contreras
1 de abril de 2014, 14:15
well, this is common teens, so I have reference and his friend should take time,with his girlfriend to see what you see what is lost by attraction ,that attraction is not the same as love ,and haci will tell if he truly loves his girlfriend ,leaving her with a new partner
that just knows.
so it will recognize that love is bigger than you think
this is "a time of" girlfriend.
romina vera 39