Agony aunts
Agony aunts are good for some people to get different views and advices to solve a problem, it may be a family problem, relations or even work problem. When you state your problem many people give their opinions, you get a different perspective and of course a solution.
Take a loook at the following example at :http://www.bbc.co.uk/skillswise/words/reading/fact_and_opinion/worksheet.shtml
What's your advice?
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27 de abril de 2010, 9:23
27 de abril de 2010, 9:25
I think that you should talk with your friend about the situation, cause, this kind of man isn't good for her. if you really love your friend you have to try to stop the wedding for the future of she. maybe she don't want hear you, and she will think that you wanna hurt her, but you gonna insist and do the correct. good luck, bye (:
By: claudia carvajal o:!
27 de abril de 2010, 9:36
Perhaps you could ran off and don't meddle in his relation. maybe if you convinced to your friend, she gonna reconsider his decision, but if she won't, don't venture to lose his frienship. maybe she think that d'you like his boyfriend, and you lose him forever. just take the correct decision, or just look for other boyfriend for your friend for distract her.
By: Domynyk Brown *-*
27 de abril de 2010, 9:44
27 de abril de 2010, 9:49
i think you should tell her you belive about his boyfriend, but she is mature and has to respect his decide.
by sergio herrera
27 de abril de 2010, 9:49
I think that she could say all of one time and finaly the relation, because this man is not good for she.
If she is realy love to him, the love should be resiprocal and he not should treat bad her, if is not resiprocal, they not jet should marry and could give him a time for decide if is realy a they want.
By: José Gahona
27 de abril de 2010, 9:51
You should show your friend that her boyfriend is a bad person.
Also talk wiht you friend, if she is a true friend she believe you.
Exist so much men, so better for her and they can make her so happy.
ISN'T GOOD FOR HER.. HELP HER!!!!
• By: Ailyn Diaz
27 de abril de 2010, 9:51
I Think that you should talking with you friend, but you friend are really in love should change the attitude and search one worked and worry of you future wife more that you friends.
You could help you friend for open the eyes and look that no all is easy in the life, the married no is for advantage of the financial security, is for love. and need ask with you wife about the problem and go to one conclution
By : Sebastian Alaniz
27 de abril de 2010, 9:52
27 de abril de 2010, 9:55
I think thet you, not must get marry with it, because it is a person who takes advantage of you and asks you for money.
He just wants to marry you for your money and not because she loves you. You deserve someone better, that will keep you and your not on.
I hope you get theis advice fondly, because that's best for you. And unlike him, he does not love you like you on.
By: please call me TooTi (Sofía Godoy Varas. Nº 26) :D
27 de abril de 2010, 9:57
the solution is: The friend could talk with the future husband, advice him that he have to change, don't be a ingrate and make her happy. And if he don't want it, look for other woman.
Michelle cuello =p
27 de abril de 2010, 9:59
you could tell your opinion about her boyfriend
and see how you react, if it reacts well go on to her marriage and if it reacts badly to ask for forgiveness and tell him it was only an opinion.
by Rodrigo molina
27 de abril de 2010, 9:59
I think you where must talk whith he boyfriend for look see if he really loves her to change their way of being. delaying marriage to find a stable a job and leave your friends a little.
paulita gonzalez
27 de abril de 2010, 10:00
I advice you not to marry becouse she is not a person who is convenient for you. In addition you must think well what you are going to be. He is not`s good future. If he loves you change his way of being and aks you for money. He just wants to marry you for you money.
I hope this advice reseive your friend.
By: Patricio Caro
27 de abril de 2010, 10:03
I wold advaice you to dealy the morriage for a few months order to search for a stable job to pay their morriage and sepending more time with his wife
BY: jose galleguillos
27 de abril de 2010, 10:03
The solution is that tell him of good way to his friend, and don't lose his friendship.
That the future husband have work and don't be a support for her, that he love her and be happy on his wedding.
By: Vanessa Cabrera :)
27 de abril de 2010, 10:03
27 de abril de 2010, 10:04
i thint thqt you could ignore the situation, be cause you avoid bad momet all shoud a makr a mistake
people learn from mistake
mathas §egovia R
27 de abril de 2010, 10:04
I think you should talk to your friend and say everything you think,if you do not repent after your friend, and would have problems with he.
you lose nothing to tell.
if she considers you her friend will understand and think about it.
By: Carolina Sandoval ^^
27 de abril de 2010, 10:05
I Think that you need talking with you friend about this and should talk about you thinks of the problem, and my advice is talking with you friend. Need much help about the problem. The marred is for all life no is for the financial security.
by : pedro cifuentes
27 de abril de 2010, 10:05
I think you have what talk with she, and to show what it is men not is for she, is very rascal and also never is whit she always is with his friends, and other thing for not lose you friend has to respect his decide.
By: jose FIGUEroa.
27 de abril de 2010, 10:05
Dear friend:
The best thing to do is telling her but calm, she shall know what you think, that you are worried for her and you don't want her to think that try to interfere in the wedding. You are her best friend she must understand that you want the best for her.
Tell her that he is not for her, she will not be happy with him, only will suffer, he prefers to be with his friends! and in a couple can not be like that!, I know that she'll understand! Don't let your best friend suffer!
by: Gaby Araya (:
27 de abril de 2010, 10:06
I SHOULD THAT HIS MAN IS NOT GOOD FOR YOUR FRIEND AND SHE NOT COULD MARRY WITH HIM.
by:german sarria
27 de abril de 2010, 10:06
27 de abril de 2010, 15:37
I think you should say to friend that his boyfriend not for her and that finish the relation whit his, because if continue together to friend will suffer greatly, because his do not spend the time in your relationship , not has work and not is fair that to friend work for mantain to his.
By: Verónica Ponce :D
27 de abril de 2010, 15:47
I advise you talk with your friend all you think about him. Let's say he is an ingrate, that takes advantage of his wife, and not has a stable job to sustain a family if he wants to marry.
what they should do is end up with her boyfriend or talk about what's going on, to see if things change, because otherwise suffer much, so it is better not to marry this man and be with another person who respects and this with her whenever she wants or needs.
By: Nathy' Cortés (♥)
27 de abril de 2010, 15:58
27 de abril de 2010, 16:36
I suppose you could talk with her, and have the enough trust to tell your friend that her fiancé is an ingrate, because he just takes advantage of the economic situation that your friend has and that is not sincere, with the feeling. Go convince her !
Good Luck.
By: Gabi Riquelme ʚϊɞ
27 de abril de 2010, 16:53
in my opinion, i think that you must risk and tell to youbest friend that she reaction and that see that he not is a good man for she, because if they them marry he can bad treat or can he is male chauvinist with she, also bacause is best that she looked to other good man, for she, because your boyfriend not work and she can not is keep his and he not must control the money of she, also is best that she looked to other man for that she to be happy.
Because you friend is very work her, and she must think in the future of she with he,that with other good person can she is happy.
by sebastián castellón m.
27 de abril de 2010, 16:58
Dear friend, the best thing to do is talking with her, to tell her all thing about him, whit cautious way,so that she don't think that you interfere in the his relation.
You should tell her that loving, is the best and that she doesn't want to hurt you, but it is for her future, because he only takes adventage of her for an economic welfare and not true love.
But the decision that she take, you
are the unconditional friend.
Karem Cabello
27 de abril de 2010, 17:09
Dear friend, I suppose you could talk whit fiancé the to ask him about his feelings and advice that if your love is true is fight for her, because the marriage is based in loove, respect and understanding. But if he doesn't love her, it is preferable to get apart from her, so that she can find the true love.
Tell her not to worry, not to hide the truth of her feelings, because you will always accompany your best friend in the bad and good time.
Belén Gallardo
27 de abril de 2010, 17:42
look, I think it would be right to tell your friend what happens because this kind of man is no good to spend a lifetime with them.
I hope you make the right decicion.
BY: FRANCISCO FAJARDO
27 de abril de 2010, 18:13
You should talk with her, for her to meet and you can her open eyes, so she can know who is the man she is getting married with. Well best talk now, do not wait until the wedding when it is too much late. I think that you friend listen what you feel, think in you, because you only need her to wake up and look for the reality. Good luck!
By:Paulina Azolas.
28 de abril de 2010, 17:41
I think thet the best thing to do
is to speak with her, and tell her is not for her, bacause he doesn't show her his love, so she will never be happy with him.
In the course of time, she will find true love. Someday, she will realize the reasons you had to talk to her and what a good friend you are.
Carlos Araya :)
2 de mayo de 2010, 16:16
I suppose you could talk with him and tell him to find a stable work to cover the expenses of the marriage so should be deferred.
And also the should spen more time with his girlfriend than with your friends.
by Aracely Santander
2 de mayo de 2010, 19:40
I thinks your best friend is an opportunist and good idea is thath not to manage sutuation as that's
just your friend it she thinks you are jealous and wan to interfere , tall hin your only friend because yo say so . and hot , interesed
and interfere . thinks what you buy you say fell you do not mind whay they say.
a friend's opinion is valid , and there you will novice that if truth is your friend not.
do not be intimidated good luck!
by: camila peñaloza
2 de mayo de 2010, 19:43
You should tell him the truth because if he is your friend he will understand you. The way he is acting is wrong and even he could lose his wife. I hope you take into account my advice, because I am a good friend who tells you the truth.
by:karim alvarado
5 de mayo de 2010, 17:51
I believe that should say what you feel, because if you remain silently you were complaining, the relation it is based principally on the confidence, I do not believe that it is just that you support to, the two must help mutually to improve the conviviality and the relation lasts, they are not to have afraid of express those who feel, because if he loves you comprendera. Let's hope that they bear my advice in mind and to be happy.
8 de mayo de 2010, 18:41
i think that you should talk with he and tell all what you feel because you can regret .
a relationship is based in confidence also not is possible what you maintain it , both should mutually help for better coexistence and the relation last
Because if the love that he has you is big to will understand her and not abandon you, take my advice into account and that you be happy
by:maria ignacia araus*=)
13 de mayo de 2010, 19:42
I think you should say everything you think, because the relationship is based in the confidence, If you were forming a family with. I believe that is not fair that you support the house and knowing that don’t make anything and just go out with his friends,
you should help each other for Conviviality will be better and have a happy relationship and without problems. Not have afraid in to say it to him if it loves you wil be understanding.
I hope you take this advice.
by: nicole cordes *-*
1 de julio de 2010, 16:18
I think I should get a more stable work for the expenses of marriage, and spend more time with the bride that friends and if he loves his girlfriend to fix their problems.
by Giancarla